I had a nice visit with my friend, Dr. Ray Guarendi over the weekend. He is the adopted dad of ...geat ready...10! He and his heroic wife have inspired thousands with their story, and thankfully, he's generous about sharing the wisdom he's learned. One of his books that has been helpful to us is "Adoption: Choosing It, Living It, Loving It"
I would say the book is for couples who may still be considering adoption, or who have just started the process. Although I do feel any adoptive parent would benefit because it does so much to "debunk" fears and misconceptions, as well as to educate and prepare for life with your adopted child (or children). It's also a great resource for grant's, loans, different legal links, etc. You can find out more and order the book here.